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New Post 13/08/2007 9:12 AM
  karenmoon
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Re: Sleep Deprivation 

Hi Liss,

I have tried lots of things at night, excepting the brandy my father kept recommending.  Deep relaxation baths; keeping the room dark and warm; singing in a low voice; patting her back with her face away from me; walking the house; waking the husband to have a go - lots of things.

I have also tried wind and colic preparations and found Infacol works best for Lauren.  Unfortunately, she is  also sensitive to my food intake - chocolate, onions and garlic, especially - a downfall of breastfeeding.

During the day she is mostly OK - it is the late afternoons when the colic really sets in and all I can do is be aware that it is probably going to happen and to try and be home - colic anywhere else is twice as bad.  I have been told that colic settles once the baby can move around.  Routine seems to be the best with my little one -as much as possible anyway.

Good luck

Karen

 
New Post 21/08/2007 10:56 AM
  lissob
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Re: Sleep Deprivation 

Hi Karen,

Sorry I haven't responded earlier - the days seem to just fly by don't they!!

When Marcella has been unsettled I must admit that the brandy bottle didn't seem a bad idea, but I too have managed to avoid it! I have a couple of times resorted to panadol when nothing else seemed to help and that did work.....but not something to use on a daily basis. I too found that Infacol helped. Regarding food I discovered that baked beans should also be avoided!!

Now, I don't have as big a problem with Marcella as you do with Lauren, and it sounds as if you are doing all the best things, however a couple of other ideas. When you are breastfeeding, your supply is at its lowest in the afternoon/evening. That is why it is recommended to try and have a nap in the afternoon, as that will help maintain supply.....I say this as it might not just be colic that is causing the problem (by itself).

The other thing I always use with Marcie is a position thing. As we all know, babies should not be put to bed on their tummies (SIDS risk) however it is a comfortable position for babies with colic, so I often put her to sleep over my lap (head on one thigh, legs falling across the other). Quite often that will be enough to settle her, and then I pop her on her back in to bed.

My husband does the 'walk the floor' however after practice many years ago with one of his now grown up children, he puts Marcella right over his shoulder (a very bony shoulder!) so that her tummy is on his shoulder and her upper body is angled down (the pressure of his shoulder on her stomach seems to do the trick, it seems to get a burp out when nothing else will. It also helps move things at the other end - be it wind or poop). People think he is treating her like a sack of potatoes, but it does settle her.

We are very fortunate that our girl is very settled usually, but I find those tricks work. Even holding her face down with your arms like a cradle and rocking her in the air works.

Let me know how you go. I have unfortunately had to stop breastfeeding due to illness, and a dreadful supply even with all the increase supply efforts, but it is wonderful if you can keep it up.

Good luck, and I"ll try and reply earlier in future.

Liss

 

 

 
New Post 22/08/2007 12:14 AM
  Tracy D
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Re: Sleep Deprivation 

My little girl was born face up with the vacuum and came out screaming and hasn't really stopped.  My doctor said that it could be colic or reflux but she was bringing up her wind and not vomiting very much.  I remembered my ante natal class teacher sprouting the virtues of taking your baby to a pediatric chiropractor so at 7 weeks old I took my very unsettled baby to see one.  It is not snap and crack but more of massage and gentle manipulation.  She has now gone from feeding every 1 1/2 - 2 hours to feeding about 3-5 hourly and is finding it very easy to bring up her wind.  I will take her for another visit this weekend and that might sort her out once and for all.  Apparently, every child finds birthing a bit traumatic no matter how good your delivery so it might be worth finding out about seeing a chiro, just make sure it is one that specialises in pediatrics.  Good luck

 
New Post 29/08/2007 8:11 PM
  Annie
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Re: Sleep Deprivation 
Modified By Lise Taylor  on 29/08/2007 6:46:10 AM)

hi everyone, to help your babies settle you could try infant massage. i didn't do it with either of my children but i recently got to watch a friend massage her baby. she'd done a special course in infant massage. she spent about 40 minutes massaging her baby all over with a nice organic oil and it was amazing to see how much her baby, who is five months, enjoyed it. i know that when you're tired and stressed from the crying and so on giving your baby a massage may seem like hard work but it's got to be a lot better than trying a whole lot of other stuff to try to settle them as it's actually relaxing for mum to do. i wish i'd thought of it with my ones. perhaps it's worth giving it a try. if you google "infant massage" you'll find an information service,  the international association of  infant massage and lots more. good luck and maybe this will help. annie

 
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