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REDISCOVERING EACH OTHER AFTER HAVING KIDS
Written by Lucy Hall You might find yourselves missing the days when the connection between you was the centre of your world, before the whirlwind of parenting swept you off your feet. Becoming parents is one of life’s most fulfilling experiences, but let’s face it, the journey also comes with its fair share of ups and downs. Between all the nappy changes, the sleepless nights and the ever ending list of things to do, your relationship can feel like it’s on the back burner. Rekindling passion after having kids isn’t just about keeping the romance alive, it’s about nurturing the bond that made you strong in the first place. So…
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THE ART OF DEALING WITH UNWANTED PARENTING ADVICE! TIPS TO MANAGE YOUR SANITY
Written by Lucy Hall From the time you announce that you are pregnant, to the time your little one has arrived earthside, you are going to go through changes physically and hormonally, that you didn’t even know existed. When you take the leap into the great unknown world that is parenting, just like the changes you go through that you didn’t know existed, you are going to get a lot of unwanted advice! Unfortunately for most parents it is just a fact and a part of the journey. But how to handle this unwanted advice can be harder than you expect! There are many things to consider and different ways…
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FROM COUPLE TO CO-PARENTS: HOW TO TRANSITION AND CREATE A NEW HEALTHY FAMILY
Written by Lucy Hall Transitioning from a relationship that was romantic to co-parenting can be a very complex journey to say the least. Both co-parenting and couple relationships are different and have their own unique challenges and rewards. In order to create a healthy environment for all parties involved, especially the children, understanding the differences can make the transition to this new normal much smoother and more emotionally tolerable. Let’s look at what you’ll need to consider to make the transition from couple to co-parents easier and more successful. Acknowledge the Change in Relationship Dynamics The first step in changing from a couple relationship and into co-parents is to acknowledge…
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WHY COUPLES FIGHT MORE AFTER HAVING A BABY
Written by Lucy Hall Becoming a parent and welcoming a new life to your family, is in most cases a joyful and exciting experience. It’s a time that you and your partner can celebrate the future you are picturing for yourselves which begins with the arrival of the new family member that you have both created. Many new parents find that they are completely unprepared for the shifts that will take place in their relationship which can often lead to an increase in tensions and conflicts, something they may not have experienced in the past once the baby arrives. The answer is a complicated and complex combination of factors, which…
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THE BEFORE-BABY DISCUSSIONS YOU NEED TO HAVE
Written by Olivia Arrow Having a baby brings all sorts of changes to life as you know it. It will be an exciting phase of your life journey and it will be overwhelming at times. A lot of parents to-be forget how important communication is when they’re caught up in the pre-baby hype, but there are some must-have discussions before the baby arrives that need to be had. Making sure you are both on the same page when it comes to your values, expectations, and fears so you can face this new adventure together, as a team. Some Topics To Discuss: What Kind of Parents Do You Want to Be?…
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NAVIGATING THE BOUNDARIES: DATING SOMEONE WITHOUT KIDS
Written by Olivia Arrow When you are already a parent, dating someone without kids can be a fun and refreshing change. But you need to be mindful that dating someone without kids also comes with its own set of boundaries and challenges that you’ll need to navigate. Understanding the Differences One of the biggest differences you’ll probably notice is in your lifestyles and priorities. People without kids often have more freedom and flexibility in their schedules, which can make them more spontaneous and carefree. On the other hand, parents often have more structured routines and responsibilities that revolve around their kids. To make things work, it’s important to understand and…
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LOVE LANGUAGES FOR PARENTS
Written by Olivia Arrow Parenting is a joyful and rewarding journey, but it can also be incredibly demanding and challenging. As parents, we often prioritise our children’s needs above everything else, including our relationship with our partner. However, it is crucial to remember that a strong and healthy relationship with our spouse is the foundation of a happy family. In the midst of diaper changes, school runs, and sleepless nights, it is easy for couples to neglect each other’s emotional needs. This is where understanding and implementing the concept of love languages can make a significant difference in a parent’s relationship. Love languages refer to the different ways in which…
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WHY YOU SHOULDN’T UNDERMINE YOUR PARTNER’S PARENTING
Written by Olivia Arrow As parents, we all want the best for our children and strive to raise them in a loving, nurturing environment. However, when it comes to co-parenting, conflicts and differences in parenting styles can arise. This can lead to undermining each other’s parenting, which can have negative effects on both the parents and the children. Undermining your partner’s parenting is damaging to your relationship and can have long-lasting consequences for your children. In this article, we will discuss why you shouldn’t undermine your partner’s parenting and how to effectively co-parent for the well-being of your family. First and foremost, undermining your partner’s parenting is a form of…
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WHAT CHILDREN LEARN FROM PARENT CONFLICT RESOLUTION!
Written by Olivia Arrow As parents, we often try to shield our children from conflict and disagreements within the household. We want to create a peaceful and harmonious environment for them to grow up in. However, arguments and disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, including the one between parents. While it may be uncomfortable and even distressing for children to witness their parents argue, it is also an opportunity for them to learn valuable life lessons. Communication and Conflict Resolution Skills One of the most significant things children learn from seeing their parents argue and make up is how to communicate and resolve conflicts. Children observe their parents’ communication styles,…
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KEEPING YOUR RELATIONSHIP SPICY AFTER MARRIAGE
Written by Liza John Let’s face it, at some point after marriage all couples have to deal with this, losing the spark. You must have heard that life completely changes after marriage. Couples who were once madly in love find themselves going through a boring, dull, family centred routine which leads you to a point where you don’t even know if together. When you get into a relationship, the butterflies when you see them, the excitement while you wait for a text, the magic in a kiss, everything seems like straight out of a happily-ever-after film. Except that it isn’t, this newness fades away after a while. This passionate love…