Written  by Olivia Arrow  Becoming a mother takes you on an emotional journey that you’ll never quite understand until it happens to you.  For some mums, once they hold their baby for the first time, the thought of being separated from their precious bundle of joy seems like the cruelest act that parenthood offers.    For some mum’s out there, going back to work is a necessity. With life tending to be so expensive and household’s relying on two incomes to help with financial commitments, being a staying at home mum is a luxury that many of us can only dream about.  For others, as much as they love the child,…