Things to be Thankful for on Father’s Day
Written by Lance Green
With Father’s Day being this month, it’s important to acknowledge the wonderful and hardworking fathers on this special day. Believe it or not, we play a special role in our family’s lives, so it’s good to recognise that we are making a positive impact for the people we love and the children we have raised. Fathers are known to be funny, practical and helpful human beings. They are there to help build the cubby houses, fix the pipes and share their love and enthusiasm for taking care of the family. So, what things should a father be thankful for on this celebratory day?
Having a family
As a father, you learn a lot when you get to raise your own family. You learn a thing or two about sacrifice and showing your children the path to living a good life. You teach them things about life and helping them make big decisions. Without family, we basically have nothing. Fatherhood is all about being able to show love and respect to your kids, partner and relatives. It is about making the most of their company while also appreciating the lessons you learn along the way on what it truly means to be a father!
Making memories
Memories last a lifetime and it’s important that we create a long-lasting impact with our time on earth. Whether it means sharing more laughs with your partner and children or booking that family trip you’ve always dreamed of, being a father is all about making every moment count. This Father’s Day why not go through the photo albums and reminisce about the good old times and start planning for adventures creating new memories!
Being an important role model
Fathers influence their children more than they think. They value what their fathers do and want to make them proud. However, it’s important to also recognise that they aren’t perfect and sometimes they make mistakes. A real father is someone who is willing to put their child’s needs above their own. They encourage you to follow your dreams but also be level-headed when it comes to decision-making. They are there for you through times of hardships and have also celebrated your successes.
Learning new things about fatherhood everyday
No matter what stage of fatherhood you’re in, you’re learning a lot about your parenting style and how it impacts your children. This is crucial to your experiences as a father because the lessons you learn along the way motivate you to improve yourself each day. Although your children may not realise this, it feels good knowing you are learning about fatherhood, through the challenging and the rewarding experiences that you go through.
Your partner
Parenting is a tough gig but how could you manage it all without your partner? Sometimes we get caught up in the madness of life that we forget who has helped us get through the difficult times together and this is where our partners come in. Having trust, a sense of humour and knowing how to work as a team is what has built the strong foundations in your relationship. It’s time to show your partner some thanks for all that they do and how much you genuinely want them to know that you love them for it!
Father’s day is a special day for the fathers who continually show support and love to their families. It is about feeling thankful for those fathers who have been role models in living their life, while also keeping their head high during the challenging times they go through. When it comes to being a father, you can feel like you’re on top of the world one day and then the next, you feel like your world is crumbling.
Just because you’re wiser and older, doesn’t mean you have to know everything. You are still learning constantly everyday, so take a moment and soak up the good times with your family. Don’t doubt yourself when in a difficult situation. This Father’s Day, it’s time to be grateful for the little things and see the beauty in what we already have right now.